Start thinking in an Impetus way

State of mind will be in a suffering mode if you keep your thoughts in a buffering mode.

Never keep your mind in a buffering mode. It doesn’t mean that we should take a decision quickly. It means that the decision should be brought into action quickly. It depends on our mindset. Don’t allow your brain to become stagnant by making it to think on the same topic. Take the decision to the next step. Bring it into action. Let the thoughts flow. Never let your thoughts to buffer, because it forms clouds of doubt in our mind. No buffering in thoughts, no suffering in life.

It takes time to take a decision because it is related with choosing. Choose the best after taking all the parameters into consideration which are related to the decision. Impetus (a force which makes an activity happen quickly) thinking makes it easier and wiser to take the decision. Be the force. Be the driving force which drives you to your destiny. You didn’t come in this world to go. You came here to leave some part of yourself here. That amount depends on the decisions you take. So while taking a decision, take opinions of your heart and loved ones and only then take a decision. And once you take a decision, don’t let it buffer again. Consider  opinions after that decision as fog. Move on. Because beyond these fog of opinions and clouds of doubt, lies your destiny. So shape your destiny.

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Life dipped in happiness

Life is a mode of transport, with body as luggage, soul as passenger and time as wheels.

We can change this mode of transport. And this luggage is a shield that keeps us safe and comfortable. We as passengers have a passion which we have to spread into this world. So keep going. Whenever the time,which are the wheels of this life,  stops you somewhere don’t think it is the end to your life. It’s just that the vehicle is refilling itself, with energy and happiness. Be happy. That’s what keeps this journey safe. Be ready to face anything. This journey is unpredictable, that’s why this is surprising. Don’t computerize your life. Never be afraid when you fall. If you are falling down, it’s just that you are being dipped in the magical water of happiness and bliss. Be strong. And when you raise all the doubts in your mind will meet the dust. Keep following your passion in this one directional life.

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Do you know what’s the secret of a meaningful life? It’s about being happy and peaceful in any situation. Situations are like net-traps. They test you and try to capture you depending on your behaviour and character. Don’t fall into these traps. Be happy. Being happy is like a scissor to these traps. See how easy the secret of life is. Doing what we like and liking what we do. What else we want in this 1-lifed game. Play well. You are the player with your passion as the game.

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Let the good in you win

The bad is always heavier than the good. So bad drowns in oceans of time and goodness remains in air. Let the good in you be victorious. Happy Vijaya Dashami.

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So this day is celebrated as the day on which Lord Ram killed Ravana. Ravana even though being so powerful and invincible, was killed by Lord Ram. It is not about being powerful, it is all about being good with the powers or without the powers. If Ravana had used his power for good, there have been many temples of Ravana. So don’t seek for power. Power comes with goodness. If you are good, you are powerful. There is always a battle in our brain, between the good and the bad. There often comes a situation in which you have to take a decision. Bad lures you with instant happiness, but the terms and conditions of bad are always hidden. Instant happiness is always temporary, which is followed by suffering and misery. After that you will regret your decision.

And on the other side, goodness will never give you any instant happiness. It will never lure you.  By following goodness you will obtain inner happiness. An act of self-satisfaction. You will put one step closer to yourself. To soul. You are the soul. And your body is the luggage that has to be carried for lifetime. Carry it faithfully.

For once in your lifetime, step out of your body. See it from a distance. It is nothing. Without your soul, it is just an house constructed with bones, muscles, neurons, arteries, veins etc.. You are dweller. You live in that body. To make your body happy is not the motive. To make yourself happy is the motive for living. Give up desires, take passion as life. Be good. Be the power. Be the leader. Let the good in you win. Happy Dusshera…

Your body is the vehicle, you, the soul, are the driver.

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Yu and Mi (Part-2)

Yu and Mi
(Part -2)
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** This is a work of fiction.**

I was feeling nervous while climbing the stairs of the Apollo Hospitals. Even though she said ‘let’s meet next week’ the previous day, I knew she said it just because I had said meeting her tomorrow was like meeting her next week. So I was ready for a date which will be one of a kind. Which is gonna be in a hospital. I hardly slept the previous night, as I was occupied by her thoughts, and when I slept, she was in my dreams.

As I reached the third floor, my temple began playing its symphony in the worst unsynchronous way possible and an earthquake broke down in my heart with her first look as the epicenter. She had occupied all my thoughts and dreams.

I have trained my mouth to sync with my brain this time, so that my mouth doesn’t speak anything without a permission from my brain, again. I have prepared some topics in advance, if in case my mouth falls out of words. I wondered whether a person can fall in love with another person to such an extent by just looking at her/him, without any information about that person. I was not sure. I was yet to discover it.

As I reached the room no.304 and was about to open the door, I felt as fearful as a person feels while opening the door of a haunted house at midnight. And when I opened the door, I saw a ghost in blue laying lifeless on bed with his face facing towards me and the mouth open. I felt afraid as I took my steps towards him. I screamed “uncle,uncle”! But no response. My heart-beat at that time was audible even to the patient next door. I was about to touch the body but within a second the life-less body sprang to life. Goosebumps.

I was about to run but then the ghost spoke “Hey my son, I was sleeping. I am glad that you care for me so much. I am absolutely fine my son. Come,have a seat.” My nervousness came down but still I felt embarrassed as he always addresses me as his son. Damn! I have a thing for your daughter! And by the way where is your daughter, I wanted to ask him.

“Today no one came to meet you, uncle?” I asked him. Being safe is always the best option.

“My wife will arrive here by today afternoon and my daughter went to a pharmacy store for medicines, she will be back in 10 minutes. That’s it! That is my family. And even you came to meet me” He includes me in his family. I sat on a chair nearby him and was thinking how to start a conversation with her dad. From where to start.

“So what do you do beta?” he asked adjusting himself inorder to sit on his bed. A question for which every parent has a patent to ask any youth in any situation, doesn’t matter even if their bones of hands are broken or not! Instead why don’t they ask ‘What is your passion beta?’

But then suddenly the doors opened up. A powerful storm disguised in the form of a girl appeared from the other side of the door. I was stunned by this epitome beauty that has a power to hypnotize the whole world with just one smile. I have heard about Bermuda Triangle before, but for the first time I saw my own version of Bermuda triangle. The triangle formed by her two eyes and her mouth as the three vertices of the triangle, instantly became my version of Bermuda triangle. My thoughts took off from my brain and landed in that triangle but they never came back. I think they got lost in that triangle. I think I need a seat belt for not to fall in this triangle. I never saw such a beauty anywhere. Describing her in just words would just be an insult.

“Hey Yu, I thought you would come next week!”, she said with a sarcastic tone.

“Then I think I should go”, I said laughing too.

“Hey dad, here are your medicines. I have already paid our house rent, current bill and LIC beema amount. So you don’t have to worry papa. Doctor said you would be discharged in two days.” She said to her dad. But she didn’t reply to me. She didn’t tell to stay. She didn’t tell to go. So I would stay.

“Aww! You are my son. You are so caring and responsible. God bless you Rashmi beta” said her dad with a feeling of pride. How proud parents feel if they see their children fulfilling their responsibilities!

“Papa, I am your son. I am your daughter. I learnt everything from you.”, she said this with a sheer confidence. I wanted to ask uncle what would he prefer me to become, his son-in-law or daughter-in-law!

As this daughter and dad pair were talking with each other, I began looking around. I expected a lot this morning and now in this 5-star hospital, with all these medicines served in the menu and the sound of these medical equipments acting as the background music, I was having a date one of a kind. WOW!

“Ha beta. So what do you do?”, said uncle interrupting my chain of thoughts. Huh! Parents!!

“B. Tech third year uncle”, I said having no spark of an engineer graduate.

“Oh! That’s great! Engineering ha! Some people don’t do it just because it is tough” said uncle.

“There’s nothing great in doing engineering uncle, it is like a 10th class nowadays. And it’s not about being tough uncle, it is just because it is followed by the most. How wrong we are! ” I said having experienced this 3 years of hell.

“Hmm. But engineering is famous. And many students join engineering which makes it tougher.  Such is the competition. And this competition gave rise to commercial age of education. But competition is imoprtant to succeed.” Said uncle. Rashmi was not that interested in this conversation. Change the topic uncle.

“No uncle. We don’t have to compete. We are already complete. We just have to follow our passion. Not the passion and profession of others. If and only if our passion turns into our profession, It will help our nation. Life is simple uncle, complications are in our mind. Everyone is given a key to one’s passion, but we keep searching for doors of others’ passion. So the door to our own passion remains closed. Finding our passion is like finding a soul-mate and following it is like keeping her happy forever.” I said mentioning some quotes which I wrote few weeks earlier. I like topics on life and passion rather than education and degrees.

“Wow.. Yu.. That’s amazing.. I really liked this soul-mate and door-key part. Very well said. I am impressed. I am really feeling good now.” Said Rashmi who was feeling uneasy so far. Yes. Her looks are magic to me and my words are magic to her.

“Thank you so much Mi. By the way what do you do?” I asked her and expected ‘I love you, Yu’ in return from her side.

“I got married two years ago.”

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Link for ‘Yu and Mi (Part-1)’ – https://jackiejain.wordpress.com/2015/09/13/yu-and-mi-part-1/

Lead and make a deal with the situation

Not only countries, organizations and teams need a leader, but also a human body needs a leader to lead it in times of dark clouds, and the best leader for a body is the person who lives in it.

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When it’s time to take any important decision, first of all we do is seek for an advice. Because we need options to make a decision. Even though we cannot predict the result of the decision, but we can analyze the outcome of the decision. The difference between what you have before taking the decision and what will you have after taking the decision is the ultimate input for this analysis. No, this difference is not measured in terms of numbers or in terms of gain. It is measured in terms of life. What impact this decision will have in the long run of your life is the real factor you have to look for. Even though if there is no path for taking a decision, take a decision and leave a trail.

Close your eyes. Mouth is the place where this balance is held. There are weights held on both sides of this centre. On one side it is our brain and on other side it is our heart. Now weigh them with mouth as centre. Sometimes our brain is more heavy and sometimes our heart is heavier. You have to decide. Your eyes are closed. You just have to justify the situation and take the decision.

Make a word. Your words will speak justice. Words of brain will easily fall in your mouth but words of heart will take sometime to reach your mouth as words of heart has to raise to reach the mouth. Wait for sometime while taking a decision. Listen to both the words of heart and brain. The words which open your eyes are heavier. Choose it. It’s the decision. Decision of your life.

Follow your passion. You are the leader. Lead your words to destination. Give a form to your words. Be the leader. To lead is to deal a situation, a situation which is jumbled. That’s why if you jumble a deal, it forms lead. So, start leading your body. You are not made to live under dark clouds of time. You are the rainbow. You are the leader.

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Utilize the energy in a good way

Energy!! What is energy? Does it have a dimension or a form? What is the purpose of this energy?

Energy is a thing which keeps us going. It tells us that the flame of our purpose is still alive within us and we have to serve that purpose within time. We have to utilize this energy in serving our purpose. Energy is like a donkey. It doesn’t know what it carries. That’s why there are terms like positive energy and negative energy. Because if we utilize this new born energy in spreading good thoughts in our mind, it stimulates our body in a positive manner by giving us a positive feeling which burns our passion and sets it on fire. Which gives us happiness and peace.

But if we misuse this energy by spending it on negative thoughts then it’s like whirling wind on a burning forest. The negative thoughts will spread quickly to each part of your existence and will destroy your mindset and your hope from inside. You will just be a vessel. As we know empty vessels make more noise. So will you, as your body will become a home for anger, hatred and ego making you a slave of their dominance. So never use this energy for negative thoughts. Always think positive. Be inspired. Create a generator of inspiration within. It will generate happiness within.

Energy doesn’t have any dimensions, neither does it has a form. It just resides within us and gets utilized in the way we use it. We never know how this energy is created. But its presence is felt strongly in the morning. It is something the supreme power above us have given us to burn our passion and keep the flame alive for generations to come so that they can carry the flame forward.

So when you wake up in the morning, utilize this energy by burning it for positive thoughts, which will keep the flame for your passion alive and thus generating happiness & peace, which drives our day safely.

Your confidence and faith are responsible for sailing yourself out of storms of darkness. Energy keeps that confidence and faith alive. So utilize your energy in a good way so that you can feel the presence of supreme power above us. Stay positive. Be inspired.

** Its been a month since my last post. Sometimes I wonder how the days pass so quickly but we are still stuck in the past. Feeling as a stranger to wordpress again. Missed you all and all your presence **

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