B is for Balance: Day-2

“Balancing is not just the act of weighing or measuring things to bring them to a equilibrium, it is an act of valuing and justifying things to bring out happiness from them.”

Have you ever thought on balancing? I mean not about balancing a pencil on your nose, or a stick on your hand or an apple on your head. I am talking about life. Balancing our life. It is known that just because there is perfect balance among nature, elements, gravity and climate on our Earth, we are able to live on this. Life is all about the balance. Equilibrium.

image

Image source: Picture Quotes

Balancing life is just not balancing two different entities or things. Balancing life is a multi-balance technique which requires determination and effort from the person who is at the balancing hot-seat. There are many entities which we have to balance and all at once. Never easy. Balancing life is not as simple as balancing a balance sheet as in Accounts or balancing equations as in chemistry. Chemistry is tough, isn’t it? Balancing life is more complex. We have to balance things in our life just by guessing their weights. It is like balancing a stick in your hands by walking not on a rope, but on an ocean decorated with stones resting on it in a zigzag manner. Each stone stands for the entity you have to balance and if you fail to balance, you will go with the flow and drown. It is difficult to weigh things with our eyes.

That’s the reason why most of the people are unsatisfied with their lives. We guess weights of entities just by seeing their appearances rather than their nature. We balance the things with wrong weights and it disturbs the balance of our life and makes us stressful and frustrated. We hate entities for that reason and blame them saying it is unlucky for me, it ruined my life, life is not satisfying, life is monotonous. In one line, the root of all these things is that there is no balance in our life. You may have balanced the entities correctly but with their weights which you have assumed were wrong. That’s why there was no balance. So there is no way we can balance these entities?

Or is there an another way out? So what if we can’t weight the elements in our life to balance them, at least we can know their values in our life. We can value entities by our heart, which have room for 4 weighing pans. Heart measures values not weights. Balance them. Values may or may not be numerical. They are varying in nature. For example, Mr. X got 90, 80, 70, 60 in Maths, Physics, Chemistry and Sanskrit respectively. (No, not my marks). Just because he got higher marks in maths should he concentrate much on Maths? Or rather he should concentrate on Sanskrit? See, here we make a mistake. We try to make the most of what we have in higher value ignoring the things with lower values. Thus we disturb the balance.

Now you may say marks are values then how to get values of entities? Ask your heart. It is the balancing machine. It perfectly knows what you have in excess and what you lack. But it will never tell you. You should seek for it. Do what your tells you to do. We all know what we are strong at and weak at. We just don’t wanna show. But improve in veil. You don’t have to prove anyone. Get stronger. Get better. Live life large scale. But careful to balance what you do. Balance is the key for satisfaction. Balance your activities in order to meet your living style. Physically, mentally, socially, emotionally, morally and spiritually balance your life perfectly. Keep up to the things in which you are strong and improve on the things which you lack but need them the most. Balance the equation. Grab the satisfaction.

This is my post for day 2 of A to Z challenge on letter B. B is for #Balance. Balance your life well.

image

Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it? Sign up and get your heads high for this challenge. Time is ticking, last day of signing up is 4th of April.

Tomorrow is the resting day for this challenge as it is Sunday. Thanks for reading. Have a great weekend. Make this month awesome.

Advertisements

52 thoughts on “B is for Balance: Day-2

  1. Geena 06/04/2016 / 7:45 am

    Improving under a veil for our own sake. Lovely thought

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Sukanya Ramanujan 05/04/2016 / 4:48 pm

    As you say having a balance in life is very important but not very easy to obtain. It has to be a conscious process.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 05/04/2016 / 5:47 pm

      Yes even its is not easy to obtain, it is essential for a happy life. Balance should be in everything. πŸ™‚

      Thanks for reading. Have a good time Sukanya.. πŸ™‚

      Like

  3. Darshith Badiyani 03/04/2016 / 11:44 am

    Mast post, Bhai πŸ˜‰ Balance pe kya sahi likha hai. Padh kar dil khush ho gaya. Love your thoughts & explanations ❀ Rest karle aaj & think of the 'B' word which we discussed πŸ˜›

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 8:00 pm

      Thank you so much Bhai.. Mein khush hogaya.. πŸ™‚

      Happy evening Bhai.. So jaa mast.. πŸ˜‰

      Liked by 1 person

  4. UpwardSpiral 03/04/2016 / 10:28 am

    Great post, Jackie! Balance is one of those things that is imperceptible until you finally achieve it! Dropping by from sujatarav6.wordpress.com for the A-Z Challenge! πŸ™‚ Good luck with the rest of your posts!

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 11:51 am

      Thank you so much Sujata.. I am glad that you liked it.. Balance is always difficult to find but the satisfaction once we attain it is unmatchable. Thanks for visiting. Happy Sunday. I will check out your work on this challenge. πŸ™‚

      Like

  5. Sydney Aaliyah Michelle 03/04/2016 / 4:07 am

    I’m always trying to find balance in my life. Between my job and my passion and between my friends and family.
    Great advice.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 11:42 am

      And life is all about balance and the one who finds the balance feels happy and satisfied..

      Thanks for visiting.. Have a good time.. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  6. Maniparna Sengupta Majumder 03/04/2016 / 3:32 am

    Balancing is the key to a successful life. We need to balance our emotions, feelings, money- just everything. You are so right to point out the eternal law of balance in Nature. If we deeply think, it seems just incredible how accurately Mother Nature has balanced everything! A great post, Jackie…so full of insight and wisdom! … πŸ™‚

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 11:40 am

      Yes Mani very true.. Balance is the key for things to exist.. And perfect balance among everything makes us happy and satisfied.

      There is also balance in everything in nature which shows us to balance everything in our life.

      Happy Sunday.. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  7. susanbruck 03/04/2016 / 1:44 am

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on balance. Balance is something I think about a lot and I often find it elusive! But it’s definitely worth paying attention to and striving for.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 11:26 am

      Thank you so much Susan mam.. Balance is the key for anything to exist in this world. And we should pay attention to it. Thanks for visiting. Hoping to learn more about letters like aleph which you mentioned for A to Z challenge.

      Thanks. Happy Sunday..

      Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 11:16 am

      Thank you so much Sharmishtha.. Very true.. everything in world gets balanced soon.. But we also have to balance certain things in our life. Thanks for visiting. Have a great Sunday. πŸ™‚

      Like

    • Jackie Jain 03/04/2016 / 11:06 am

      Yes, finding balance becomes essential to lead a happy life. Thanks for visiting! And wow Romance author.. That’s great.. Blinded by blaze post of yours is amazing. Thanks.. Have a great Sunday.. πŸ™‚

      Like

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 7:53 pm

      Thank you so much. . πŸ™‚
      Have a good weekend. .

      Like

  8. Jennifer Juneau 02/04/2016 / 6:27 pm

    This is so good Jackie!! I always strive for balance in my life every single day. Some days are better than others but I know how to get back on track. 😊 Hope you are liking the challenge so far!

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 6:45 pm

      Thank you Jenni for visiting. Not every day is same and there are always something unexpected activities that pop up. We have to be ready and face them by balancing our resources well. I am glad that you can control and get back on track..

      I am really enjoying this challenge. It’s awesome.. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  9. joannesisco 02/04/2016 / 5:29 pm

    Visiting from the A-Z Challenge.
    Balance has been and continues to be a huge challenge for me – and most people. I liked your statement about the heart knowing perfectly what you have in excess and what you lack. But it will never tell you. You should seek for it.

    Unfortunately we often ignore the answer it sends us because it’s too hard, inconvenient, even scary because of the change it implies.

    Great theme you have here for this challenge!

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 6:12 pm

      Hello.. Welcome to the blog.
      Very true, balance is somewhat difficult to attain as there are many layers and internal factors that have to be balanced. Thanks for liking my words. True, we often ignore the signals from heart because we fear to change, we fear to improve. Thanks for visiting. All the best for the challenge.

      Have a great weekend. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  10. Aphrodite 02/04/2016 / 5:02 pm

    You are a very profound person Jackie and that shows in your quotes. And usual, I love this one too. πŸ™‚

    Liked by 2 people

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 5:12 pm

      Thank you so much Ankita. It always feels good to hear from you. Thanks for liking it. Have a great weekend. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

      • Aphrodite 02/04/2016 / 5:13 pm

        It feels good to read your posts. So meaningful. And same to u. πŸ™‚

        Liked by 1 person

      • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 5:14 pm

        Thank you so much Ankita. This makes me feel joyous. Thanks for the wishes. πŸ™‚

        Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 5:11 pm

      Thank you so much Sci. Very true that. Every part have to be balanced in our life. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 3:41 pm

      Hello Alok! Thank you for the wishes. . Balance is the key. . πŸ˜‰
      Have a great weekend. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  11. inkyfire 02/04/2016 / 3:23 pm

    wow – balancing – balance – its so great – well done bro – life, love and everything in the universe has to go with this word – πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ awesome

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 3:37 pm

      Hey Prabhat. . Thank you so much bro. Very true, everything in this world has to go with and through this word. Thanks.
      Have a great weekend. . πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  12. Double the Monkey Business 02/04/2016 / 2:39 pm

    Love this post! Also doing the challenge and I am adding you to my reading list πŸ™‚

    Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 3:35 pm

      Thank you so much. . And wow, all the best for A to Z challenge. I will check out your work. πŸ™‚ Have a great weekend. πŸ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

    • Jackie Jain 02/04/2016 / 3:34 pm

      Thank you so much Emma. . I am glad that you liked it. Balance have to be maintained to feel satisfied with life. Thanks. All the best for the challenge. I will check out your posts on this challenge. .
      Have a great weekend. . πŸ™‚

      Like

share your opinion

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s