U is for Understanding: Day-21

“Understanding others is not an act of compromising, it is an act of trusting and respecting the feelings of others.”

To understand a person is not an easy task. It gets more difficult when that person is the self. Do you understand yourself completely? What you want? What you need? Compare yourself as a galaxy, and others as another galaxy. Now calculate the level of understanding. See, we don’t understand our own self completely, how can we understand others. So never judge others with their current position, you don’t know where they have come from. They face different situations, different responsibilities, different challenges and a different way of thinking. To be in the same frequency, there have to be a common understanding, which don’t judge. It just brings out the best of others.

Life is not easy. We often judge and go away from others just because we feel they don’t understand us. We feel as if we are left alone. But that’s not the case. Who knows, may be they are thinking the same thing. They also want to be understood. When you really need that person in your life, you have to take that step of understanding. To tell them that you are with them, no matter what. They all need is confidence. A person on the back. Understand that it is not easy to tackle all such situations in life alone. We need family and friends to acts our pillars of strength. Be that strength to them. They will for you too. Our circle of people is better and clear when there is a common center(Origin) to all, which is a common understanding.

When someone comes to you with a problem don’t think it is a burden on you. No one comes to you without a reason. Damn! they trust you and have faith on you. It is not that easy to get. Aren’t you great! Smile. You cannot see the same face of the coin when you are on opposite sides. For being able to see the problem from same point of view, you have t be on the same side, a common understanding. Understand their problem. They may not come for a solution, they just come to share it. To have someone who understands them, who can guide them out into the light. Talk with them, bring out a solution. Make them feel special, bring out the best from them. The feeling of happiness we get when our understanding helps others in solving their problems cannot be mentioned in words.

The problem is we never understand. That’s why we never feel happy and satisfied. We often blame and judge others. I don’t know what kind of happiness is this! it just makes us less human. Yes, that’s true that we all need to be understood but for that first we have to be understanding. That’s the real step for happiness. You cannot solve a problem, if you don’t understand it in first hand.

We all want to be understood by others, but may be they think the same. You take a step to understand them. Your good intentions will be easily understood by others. It’s all about feelings of others and understanding them. It’s the ultimate language of love.

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This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 21 and it is on the letter ‘U’. ‘U’ is for Understanding. Understand others and their feelings.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Have a beautiful week ahead. Cultivate the habit of understanding.

R is for Responsibility: Day-18

Life is not a race to run, it is a ride to reach our destiny.

We don’t have to rush or roar, we just have to raft efficiently in the rivers of time.

We don’t know whether something is real or is just random, but we know whether we have to recognize and realize our destiny.

We have to make room for ourselves through the rocks of time and build our own roads for this rare journey.

We have to repair the rotten and respect the rightful.

Research before you reveal something, review before you repeat something.

Don’t break the rules, but at the same time don’t stick to the rules which are rusty.

Be responsive, be refreshing, be reflective and be reflexive.

Resolve properly. Make a resolution with a responsibility. Because your actions reap results.

Your capability’s dimensions may be round or rectangle, you have to re-size it according to your requirements. It’s your responsibility.

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This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 18 and it is on the letter ‘R’. ‘R’ is for Responsibility. We have to it.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Have a good week ahead. Wishing you all a ‘Happy Earth Day-2016’ (22-04-2016). It’s our collective responsibility to save our Earth, irrespective of its shape.

 

F is for Fuzzy: Day-6

“Nothing in this world is completely true, not even the universal fact that The Sun rises in the east! Then how can we blindly categorize the issue under radar into true or false? It can be anywhere in between. Yes, that’s fuzzy. Our life itself is fuzzy”

Oxford dictionary defines the term ‘Fuzzy’ as unclear or indistinct.

When someone says that his life is boring, tell him to elaborate it! Our life cannot be simply boring. It is fuzzy. Actually he should say like this, ‘My life is 50% occupied, 20% I am not doing anything new and 30% I am lazy. Now such answer can be satisfying. Life is not boring, he is himself making his life boring. So we get clarity on life only by being fuzzy! You are still unclear right? Yes, you are on the right path, partially.

Categories may seem important but still they are not the definite boundaries. There is always something in between and something beyond these boundaries. I want people to stop categorizing people and things. There are many wide spread categorizations like good and bad, true and false, male and female, high and low, rich and poor, black and white, native and foreigner, intelligent and idiot, literate and illiterate, introvert and extrovert, Hindu and Muslim etc. . . I think they just divide people in a wider perspective. We can be anywhere in between, so why the division. We don’t know the problem of this division now, but slowly and slowly this division keeps accumulating. We should stop it before it takes a different turn. Be clear in this fuzzy life. Be fuzzy in division, be clear in unity.

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But there are some categories where fuzzy is ruled out. Right or wrong, moral or immoral comes under such. Being fuzzy shouldn’t harm anyone.

When fuzzy is about unclear, fuzzy logic is about getting the clarity. The logic to predict the outcome depending upon its fuzziness is fuzzy logic. For example it may rain or it may not rain but what if it just drizzles? I mean everything is fuzzy in nature. Everyone. We don’t have a clarity upon anything. It is just that we predict them by their actions and thus we get some clarity on them, I said some. Use the fuzzy logic to know completely about the thing.

I know the fuzziness of this post is higher, but the reason I chose this topic is because I was actually unclear. Future, Freedom, Family, Friends, Favorite, Force, Favour, Formula, Flaw there were many words which I could have selected, (Family and friends are not topics which I could write just in one post) so I was struck. But then it struck. In my final year project I had worked on soft set theory which was based upon fuzziness. Yes, I also have some knowledge on technical aspects of fuzzy sets and fuzzy controls, but discussing about it here is logic-less. That’s it, my fuzziness came to an end, as I took the word fuzzy.

Fuzzy is also important in taking decisions. It gives the complete 360 degree view, rather than only 90,180,270 and 360 degree view. By being fuzzy about an product, we can understand it from every angle. We can understand how and where it can be more productive! We have to make our life productive even though it is fuzzy.

So putting an end to this fuzziness, I want to conclude that no one is completely perfect and no one is completely flawed. We are fuzzy versions of ourselves. Even this post was fuzzy but sure with some clarity. We have to accept the people the way they are. We shouldn’t try to change people, we should just try to change their way of thinking.

This post is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 6 and it is on letter ‘F’. F is for Fuzzy. There is clarity in Fuzziness. Hope you liked it.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Have a good time. Be fuzzy, get clarity.