U is for Understanding: Day-21

“Understanding others is not an act of compromising, it is an act of trusting and respecting the feelings of others.”

To understand a person is not an easy task. It gets more difficult when that person is the self. Do you understand yourself completely? What you want? What you need? Compare yourself as a galaxy, and others as another galaxy. Now calculate the level of understanding. See, we don’t understand our own self completely, how can we understand others. So never judge others with their current position, you don’t know where they have come from. They face different situations, different responsibilities, different challenges and a different way of thinking. To be in the same frequency, there have to be a common understanding, which don’t judge. It just brings out the best of others.

Life is not easy. We often judge and go away from others just because we feel they don’t understand us. We feel as if we are left alone. But that’s not the case. Who knows, may be they are thinking the same thing. They also want to be understood. When you really need that person in your life, you have to take that step of understanding. To tell them that you are with them, no matter what. They all need is confidence. A person on the back. Understand that it is not easy to tackle all such situations in life alone. We need family and friends to acts our pillars of strength. Be that strength to them. They will for you too. Our circle of people is better and clear when there is a common center(Origin) to all, which is a common understanding.

When someone comes to you with a problem don’t think it is a burden on you. No one comes to you without a reason. Damn! they trust you and have faith on you. It is not that easy to get. Aren’t you great! Smile. You cannot see the same face of the coin when you are on opposite sides. For being able to see the problem from same point of view, you have t be on the same side, a common understanding. Understand their problem. They may not come for a solution, they just come to share it. To have someone who understands them, who can guide them out into the light. Talk with them, bring out a solution. Make them feel special, bring out the best from them. The feeling of happiness we get when our understanding helps others in solving their problems cannot be mentioned in words.

The problem is we never understand. That’s why we never feel happy and satisfied. We often blame and judge others. I don’t know what kind of happiness is this! it just makes us less human. Yes, that’s true that we all need to be understood but for that first we have to be understanding. That’s the real step for happiness. You cannot solve a problem, if you don’t understand it in first hand.

We all want to be understood by others, but may be they think the same. You take a step to understand them. Your good intentions will be easily understood by others. It’s all about feelings of others and understanding them. It’s the ultimate language of love.

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This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 21 and it is on the letter ‘U’. ‘U’ is for Understanding. Understand others and their feelings.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Have a beautiful week ahead. Cultivate the habit of understanding.

T is for Time: Day-20

Time is a very twisted and a turning phenomenon which never gets tired of travelling from one point to another. It takes everything with it and we never are on the same plane of time again. Time keeps creating new situations, new challenges and we have to face them and make the most of it. We have to learn from them and excel in our life. Time is the measurement quantity which we use for scheduling events and also for sequence of activities. It is not time on which we all run and live. It is on moments. Every person has his/her own sheet of time. Time always deceives us by following different patterns.

Sometimes time moves quickly than a clock and sometimes it moves slower than a turtle on a clock. But time goes nowhere. We are seeing at time depending upon our perspective. When we are busy time we feel as if time is moving quickly and we are getting bored, we feel as if time is moving slowly. It is an illusion. Our clock is not the real-time. The moments we make out of it is the only reality. With every time period there is a turning point associated with it. There is a timing. We have to sync to it to get the best of it.

Haiku on time:

Time is illusion
Only moments which we build 
is reality.  

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This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 20 and it is on the letter ‘T’. ‘T’ is for Time. Time is an illusion but there is a timing of it.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Have a beautiful week ahead. And also the last week of the challenge. Take care. Make the most of moments.

I have reduced the online presence to a great extent. It is like an illusion and carrying away the time away from me. So just sitting back and building real moments and cherishing them. Two days back relatives came to  our home and they were talking about present generation children remaining attached to screens ( Tv, Mobiles, Tablets, Systems and Laptops). They said everyone is wasting time for hours and losing the real moments of life. I also realized it. May be that’s the reason I am not using more than half an hour on internet these days. I feel good. Have a good time.

Q is for Quotations: Day-17

Words written in between the Quotations ask us for special attention and tell us that they are special. Quotes are the short forms of words which spread the message of quality over quantity. In only few words we can go very deep with the concept and relate to them easily. I think they heal the wounds of thoughts quickly. Dictionary defines quotes as the ‘repeat or copy out (words from a text or speech written or spoken by another person).’ But I would like to share few of my own quotes ( don’t know whether I can call them like that) here.

“If you think you have achieved enough for yourself, it’s time to achieve for others.”

“There is no short cut to success, it is just that sometimes you have to take the longer path.”

“Not  everyone in the world is there to hold you with their fingers, some are waiting to hold you with their sharp nails. Be careful.”

“Don’t plan life for years, it may change in seconds. Instead plan your life in seconds such that it becomes be useful for years.”

“You can draw inspiration from others, but at the end you have to paint it by yourself in your life.”

“Only what you eat with your mouth reaches the stomach. So control your mouth well.”

“Make your immune system resistive to negative thoughts.”

“Our world is full of Love and Power. Love with wrong intentions and Power in wrong hands.”

“We all are tied with the invisible ropes of love and trust in our life. Be careful with your two-lipped scissors.”

“Life is a disease for which we have to find a cure.” (This quote is the first one I ever wrote. I wrote it in my friend’s slam book in 10th class.)

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( I love quotes written by Maya. They are very inspiring. )

This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 17 and it is on the letter ‘Q’. ‘Q’ is for Quotations. They heal our mind quickly.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Keep reading quotes and also keep framing quotes. The happiness of framing quotes cannot be expressed in words. Have a good week ahead.

K is for Kaleidoscopic knowledge: Day-11

“Life is a Kaleidoscope of colors with colors being the people. They keep changing by showing us their different colors and angles. The thing is that there is no tool to set or adjust the colors according to our need. Knowing this thing is knowledge.”

Life is the kaleidoscopic  tube, our eye is the eyepiece. Time the adjusting phenomenon which keeps adjusting different situations. People are the colors which keeps changing according to the situations. Sometimes we see their rainbow angle and sometimes we see their gray shade. We can’t do much. As time passes on, colors change, people change, situations change, feelings change, emotions change. Everything just keep changing. We have no command over it. It is a kaleidoscopic life. We have to accept it. After some time, colors fade, eyes go blind and time stops ticking. It is black. Then what? New colors are added to the kaleidoscope, time have been reset and new eyes are ready to see through eye piece. Again colors keep changing, people start changing, we keep judging, everything keep changing. . That is life. . Kaleidoscopic life. And accepting it is knowledge, Kaleidoscopic Knowledge.Kaleidoscope

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This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 10 and it is on the letter ‘K’. ‘K’ is for Kaleidoscopic Knowledge. Accept it.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Accepting the truth is knowledge. Have a great week ahead.

Sorry for late. I think time is running too fast in my  life recently. I think it is changing quickly. I just have to accept. I am too much occupied. I started writing on this at 11:31 pm. I wanted to write and post it before 12 am. Even I thought quickly, wrote less, typed quicker than ever before, searched for pics at light speed, added them, linked them in hurry, still I was unable to post it on time. When the clock struck down 12, I  was just typing the above paragraph. Then I slowed down. So I am about to press Publish, its 12:11 am. Here I go.

J is for Jumble: Day-10

“Life is like a jigsaw puzzle with thoughts being the jumbled pieces and its outcome depends only on the way you arrange the pieces of this puzzle one by one in order.”

Our life is a puzzle, with puzzle pieces being different time frames and situations. We have to be active and observe the pattern between them. We have to take actions according to that and have to wait for the fruitful outcome. We cannot change the pieces of our life, but we can change the situations by being optimistic during dark times and bringing different outcome out of it, a bright one. Life is nothing but a lifeless path if not lived with struggles. Struggles may be mental, situational, spiritual, personal or social. It takes one positive angle to jumble all the bad pieces into a good outcome of the puzzle.

When it comes to solve this puzzle, the jumbled pieces are also our thoughts. Yes, they are jumbled and not in order which makes our life order less. Just by governing our thoughts and directing them towards our purpose and goal, we can make our life more productive and effective. It requires sheer confidence to face the challenges and the dark times. It is all about resilience, the ability to bounce back when you hit the bottom. It is the comeback from a situation and arranging things back in the order.

And sometimes our missing pieces of puzzle are stored in the people we come across. We learn from them and take this piece from them and arrange in our life to gain back the order. That’s why unity is important. To become whole, to become complete. Life is the all about finding pieces and arranging back them in order to make it worth living.

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I have been juggling a lot of things from April, after returning from the trip of Rajasthan. I am still to settle back to normal life after coming home. May be that’s why I am not able to read and interact much, recently. Just have to arranges things, the missing pieces, the jumbled pieces back in order.

This is my entry for A to Z challenge . It is already day 10 and it is on the letter ‘J’. ‘J’ is for Jumble. Rearrange the jumbled pieces in order.

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Coming to the challenge, as the name itself says it is very challenging. On every day of month April, except Sundays, which makes it to 26 days, each participant should publish a post relating to the letter corresponding to the number of the day thus completing all the 26 alphabets. For example on day 1, the post should be on something related on letter A, on the second day it should be related to B and this goes on. Exciting? Isn’t it?

And as always, thanks for reading. Just hope that your jumbled pieces arrange back in order to make it meaningful. Have a great week ahead.

Category of Miracles

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Hello. Let’s start this month of July with the topic of ‘Miracles’. I have heard people saying that they have never seen miracles, throughout their life. Sometimes I feel sad that we are given so much to celebrate, but still we focus on things which makes us depressed. Everyone wants something magic in their life. Something miraculous in their life. The cinematic field have though given us a wide room of imagination for people, but it has also given a negative hope in people, that cinematic world could be in real. Remember what miracles happen in movies, are all scripted. They all happen at that moment of time because they are planned with great precision. But our real life is more unpredictable. It’s amazing. We don’t know what will happen the next day? Why to go for the next day, we don’t even know what will happen the next moment. That’s good, tables turn and so do the fortunes.

Coming back to miracle, when someone says they didn’t see any miracle in their life, let’s start with the first miracle that comes in everyone’s life. The birth day. It’s known to everyone that when we come out of our mother’s womb, we cry. Only after we started cry, they said we were born. Ever thought why? I got this thought when I was in a hospital, with my grand parents for a regular check up.

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Yes. When we leave this body, we leave our family, friends and well wishers crying for us. We don’t have any body to cry for them. So when we get a body,which is when we are born again, we cry for them and forget the previous life’s sorrows.
We are ready for this life now.
So isn’t this a miracle?
Some say we were in mother’s womb for 9 months, and we cry because we cannot adjust to sudden change environmental conditions. Yes. That’s also true.

We see. We hear. We speak. We feel. We breath. We eat. We drink. We think. We cry. We smile. We love. We hate. So why we want to see more miracles?
Because we want more. More and more. But remember more and more of anything is dangerous.
So be happy, be satisfied with what you have. You are a soul living for temporary period in this body. Make this period worthwhile.

And yes. We all want to make mark on this world. Make a mark on people’s heart.

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So that’s it. Enough said. Just wish that this month of July is full of miracles in everyone’s life. Thanks for reading.